"It’s imperative that the birthing experience consists of the individual feeling like they are listened to, validated, and genuinely supported."
– Shana Spinks, AAIMM Doula
What does being a doula mean to you?
To me, being a doula means supporting parents as they enter the most meaningful journey of their lives—helping them feel confident by equipping them with guidance, evidence-based education, and extensive labor support.
Being a doula means assisting parents in creating the joyous birth they so desire, as I know this event will forever be engraved in their hearts.
One reason a family should consider having a doula:
Having a doula can enhance the birthing experience by lessening the chances of a C-section, providing support and coping techniques, instilling self-confidence, and shortening labor.
Please share a story of one of your most memorable experiences as a doula.
I had a client who had a strong desire to birth her babies (twins) vaginally. We explored and consulted with medical teams in an effort to create a cohesive team that was willing to commit to this process as long as it was safe for mother and babies. The client was overjoyed because she was able to experience the vaginal birth she so desired.
BIO
Shana Spinks is a Lactation Educator and holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Child and Family Development and has worked with families for over 10 years. Her passion grew out of her desire to change the birthing narrative. She believes birthing is one of the most vulnerable times in a person’s life. It’s imperative that the birthing experience consists of the individual feeling like they are listened to, validated, and genuinely supported.
As she began to explore her passion for this experience and reflect on her own birthing experience, she became aware of the lack of education parents received when making decisions regarding birth. Shana strongly believes the birthing person should be educated so that they can make the most informed decisions regarding their body as well as their child’s. Her goal is to create a loving, beautiful, and cherished birth story for the families she supports. She truly believes in, “Your Birth, Your Way!”
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FacebookMost importantly, she supported me, without making my husband feel useless or like he wasn’t included. During labor, she was there in the shadows observing and giving gentle reminders and encouragement as my husband held my hand she provided the ice chips. Shana also took pictures during and after labor, (with permission) and wasnt something I knew I’d want until I reviewed the photos of the intense, brutal and honest moments of birth. She was there listening as the nurse would check me and would give recommendations but always reminded me to follow my instinct and what I was most comfortable with. Provided tips and tricks to help me work through difficulty latching, during breastfeeding, and even did a home visit where she helped me find different ways to introduce a bottle. Some of these things may seem small but meant the world to me. Being 8 months post partum now, she still checks in and I feel I am still able to reach out and pick her brain. I cannot say enough about her and the knowledge, warmth, and way she made me feel like no question or concern was too small, and didnt look at me as if I should “know” these things simply because I had given birth before.
I know that any woman lucky enough to have Shana as a doula will say the same, and I hope that other moms are able to feel as safe on this journey with a doula as Shana made me feel.
Thank you SHANA!!!
She not only became integral support for me in the weeks and days leading up to my delivery but she has also become a dear friend. She helped me through the challenges by offering guidance and a trusted opinion. Especially in one particularly difficult moment where I was being presented with so many differing opinions, she reminded me to trust myself and follow my instinct.
That she has additional training as a lactation consultant really helped me in the breastfeeding journey She’s always been present and checks in on me regularly, a testament to her caring nature and the investment she makes in all her new moms.
After giving birth to our beautiful son, my husband and I are so very grateful for the caring expertise, practical guidance and listening presence of our phenomenal doula Shana.
When we learned that we were pregnant, we needed a way to tap into the generational wisdom of how to have a healthy birth process in the face of current black maternity fatality rates. Pre, during and post birth this experience has been life affirming and priceless to say the least. We are so very thankful in our journey to become parents to be blessed with having Shana as our doula and a part of our village.
She brings a calming energy and a vast knowledge of practices for providing support before, during and after labor. I would definitely recommend Shana.